The person enduring the brand new embarrassment injury renders every effort to help you end up being hectic by the enabling their family
During the youthfulness and puberty, the guy knowledgeable reports on the a beneficial sexual level
Fear: versatility The brand new hide: this new Masochist (emotional/mental) Child which thought humiliated of the their parents for having satisfaction which have their sensory faculties. Freedom broken because of the a beneficial contemptuous and you may repressive ideas. Sense of shame. If you take proper care of others, the guy minimizes his shame if you find yourself ensuring that he does not have going back to himself, which independence given that the guy fears that have no limits. Believing on your own vital encourages one's pride within its creativity. Below his modest and you may discerning looks covers a pride and you may a good feeling of superiority into the anyone else, that's noticeable in his tendency to infantilize them by selecting to do everything you for them. They lifestyle underneath the idea of ??an authority (God, morality, etcetera.) and that always notices and you can evaluator it, and efforts to get really worth they. Prohibits himself to express issues that could harm others, in order to who the guy finds reasons. In the denial regarding their sensuality, the guy won't let himself getting mothered and that's scared of their sensual signals and you will outbursts from which he'd be embarrassed. If he has lifestyle, the guy worries being punished and being taken away from his spirituality.